söndag 2 maj 2010

Too honest for my own good

I guess im also too honest for my own good, a great person, one that i admire and love sincerely told me not long ago " im too honest for my own good and for the good of others " 

well im also too honest sometimes, mostly the wrong times , seems like it, cause i have just hurt a very dear person to me by saying what i thought.... 

And now i truly understand what this person meant.... it is not good to be too honest sometimes... 

It is also FAR TOO EASY to interpret things the way we think someone else does, take for example.. 

I write something and someone reads it, but i didnt explain everything when i wrote it down, so the person that reads it can take it one way or another, if they think i meant something and i DID NOT then we have a problem... 


I have always appreciated this persons honesty towards me ( no matter how much it has hurt, i ALWAYS rather hear the thruth ! ) ... and have learned to be honest , at least towards those that are honest towards me. 

For that and if i have yet again hurt you... IM SORRY !! from the bottom of my heart, but deep down i beleive you wouldnt have it any other way. 



Honesty refers to a facet of moral character and denotes positive, virtuous attributes such as integrity, truthfulness, and straightforwardness along with the absence of lying, cheating, or theft


In discourse a statement can be strictly true and still be dishonest if the intention of the statement is to deceive its audience. Similarly, a falsehood can be spoken honestly if the speaker actually believes it to be true, assuming the speaker doesn't unfairly reject or suppress evidence. Conversely, dishonesty can be defined simply as behavior that is performed with intent to deceive or to manipulate the truth.

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